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Etiquette when visiting a Japanese house
Traditional Japanese houses are usually one- or two-storeyed buildings. Historically and geographically Japan has not so much territory that is why living spaces here tend to minimalism both in terms of square meters and interior.
You should take your shoes off at the hall and put them in order that toes pointed to the entrance. If hosts suggest you slippers, be sure to put them on. If you are going to visit a Japanese house it would be better to take a souvenir (tsumaranai-mono in Japanese) because it is considered to be impolite visiting without a gift. Alcohol, chocolate or any traditional souvenir from your country would go well as the gift. There is no tradition in Japan to open gifts right away, so if the hosts make a present to you as a responsive gesture of courtesy do not unwrap it immediately because Japanese would consider this like display of greed and excessive curiosity.

There is a special niche called tokonoma in an every traditional Japanese house. That tokonoma usually contains ikebana and kakemono, a paper roll with a famous saying calligraphically written on it. Referring to one of our previous articles on etiquette and behavior in Japan, please remember that if there is tatami on the floor it is impossible to step on tatami in any footwear.

We have also spoken about two main Japanese postures – seiza (official formal pose) and agura (with one's legs crossed, more informal). There also some rules regarding behavior on tatami. For instance, it is prohibited to sit sprawling and stretching one's legs, especially to touch with feet those present (it is considered insulting to touch someone with one's feet or even turn one's feet to someone). It is worth to comply with the dress code for such occasions: try to avoid shorts, jeans; women should avoid miniskirts, décolleté, bare feet – socks are necessary and better if they are white.

If you are invited to o-furo (this word has two meanings "Japanese baths” and just "bath”) note some nuances. First, before entering the o-furo you should take a shower and the longer you are soaping and washing yourself the better – Japanese will undoubtedly appreciate your knowledge of this rule. They usually soap and washing about thirty minutes before to go into the o-furo or onsen (hot spring). Only after this procedure it is possible to enter o-furo to experience all fascination of relaxing in hot water.

Second, after luxuriating in the o-furo do not pull a plug because the bathtub is filled only once an evening. If you are a guest – no doubt you will be allowed to o-furo first and this is considered as a great sign of attention and honor that is why you need to thank the hosts.

Category: Culture and Traditions | Added by: vladgon (20.01.2011)
Views: 22694 | Comments: 5 | Tags: house, souvenir, Behavior, tatami, etiquette, Japanese, tokonoma, Gift, visiting, ikebana | Rating: 5.0/6 |
Comments total: 5
5 Dan   [Entry]
Thanks so much for the info. Writing a book in 1st person Japanese perspective, and every little bit of information helps.

4 Alexa   [Entry]
I love this entry bacsuee it provides a simple reminder to keep our own ethnocentrity in check and to always examine the motives and reasoning driving our activism. I still believe that outreach and education are the reasons humans are ever able to generate positive changes or to cease negative ones. Still, we can sometimes get in our own way, and I think that we need to discuss and coordinate our approach collectively in order to be effective. I also understand that stopping to have such discussions and to make plans is difficult when we feel such urgency. But we have to take time to be observant and to notice the subtle changes that indicate when urgency *may* be diminishing. However, industrial fishing, as well as, whaling has continued far too long and regardless of what is at the root of the decline, I wish we'd seen changes sooner. I realize that posting things like this on Facebook is likely futile, but it seems to be an addiction I'm not ready to relinquish. So, I posted your entry this A.M. One respondent said, Consider that some say that slavery would have ended soon, and peacefully, with no Civil War, if the North had not pressured the South. In a sense, you never know about these things. But for years, it has looked like the Japanese government has really wanted its whaling. I'll think more about how I would like to respond after I'm past the ugency of six grants that are due today. But thank you very much, Mr. Safina for asking us to stop and think at all.

3 dina yulita   [Entry]
thanks for article,, because help me to make my task from lecture

2 Ali Akbar   [Entry]
Thanks for the info.

1 Tawlar98   [Entry]
That's really cool. I've been studying Japanese for a long time now, and am just learning a lot of this information.

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